After 17 months of being married, and 17 months of procrastination I finally went and had my name officially changed.
I feel like a new woman.
I can't pinpoint exactly when it started but for some reason, somehow, somewhere in the past 17 months I developed a PHOBIA of getting my name changed.
It had nothing to do with commitment, or Luke or the actual last name, I was living the life of a Tree in every way, just not according to the government.
Which kind of seems like a crime or something. Hm...
Anyways, it was something that I kept saying I needed to do and then the thought of driving to the office and sitting there sounded horrible.
Pretty much every married girl that I had talked to made it sound like they went to hell and back to get their name changed.
And I had no desire to go to hell and back. So I continued to fake being a Tree.
I mean my blog name is Tales of the Trees, how much more official does it get than blogger?
But after about 20 panic attacks at different times I realized that I needed to get my name changed if I wanted to continue my life as a Tree.
I had too many different names floating around and I was beginning to think it might catch up with me someday.
Although it was sort of exciting to feel like a character from The Bourne Identity or something.
I have no idea why I just picked that movie. It just seemed appropriate.
I took off Friday afternoon and begged Luke to pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease go with me since he has Friday's off.
We arrived at the office around 1ish I took my appropriate number and sat down for what planned to be hours.
I had asked Luke to come so that he could keep me company during this trying time.
So here he is "keeping me company"
In case you're wondering as soon as we got there he put his headphones in his ears and started reading a book.
If that's not true love than I don't know what is.
We had been there for about 5 minutes when I realized that my bladder was about to burst. I gave my number to Luke and told him to listen for it, knowing that my number wasn't going to be called for another 6 hours.
I then went to the bathroom. We will not discuss this bathroom. If I develop a disease in the next 2 months I will know where it came from. That bathroom. I was thankful to be wearing a scarf because I used it as my face mask.
I came back to the holding room (or waiting room) to find Luke all in a tizzy. They had called my number but he didn't know who had called it and they moved on to the next person.
All I have to say is, "If looks could kill".
I'm pretty sure I made a baby cry from the way I looked at Luke.
He had one job, ONE JOB.
I may have even contemplated not taking his name at that moment.
So after trying to problem solve and walking around in a circle trying to figure out what to do, they finally called my number again.
And I looked at Luke like he better thank his Lucky Stars.
I eventually I got everything taken care of and finally changed my name.
Here I am so happy to have it done, and only a little bit mad at my lovely husband, all while wearing my red face mask.
And it only took 17 months of procrastination, a 15 minute drive to the building, 1 almost throw-down with the husband in the waiting room and a 30 minutes wait.
Thats what I call success.
Now you're a newlywed all over again, right?
P.S. Why does it look so warm in your picture? Cause it's freezing and under a blanket of snow here and I'm jealous!
Hooray! And I'm really impressed you had a camera on you. I couldn't take my cell phone in let alone a camera. And my purse was too big too.ReplyDelete
You are a new woman! Congrats :) That whole process was such a pain. Now you're officially MRS. TREE!!ReplyDelete
Congratulations! I'm engaged and will be changing my name this summer. I'm so glad to hear that it wasn't a nightmare of a process!ReplyDelete
Lol...One Job, had me cracking up! :)ReplyDelete
I can't believe you waited 30 minutes! I had to wait over 2 hours. It wasn't so bad, but there were some questionable people there and I was so ready to get out!ReplyDelete
Congrats!!! The new Mrs.Tree!!:)ReplyDelete
Do you have your driver's license yet? I waited almost two hours at my social security office and after that was too scared to do my driver's license. Not to mention the horror stories of five hour waits at our DPS. Oh, and not to mention the day before Thanksgiving when I called and asked what time they closed, they said 5, I got there at noon and they were closed!!
Can't say I didn't try!
Now you can file your taxes with yoru new name once your card comes in the mail. Yay!
Changing my last name was the BIGGEST pain of my life. I still get mail with my maiden name and the post office gets confused and creates a mess. I say boys need to start changing their names to ours!ReplyDelete
You. are. hilarious. Mrs. Tree.ReplyDelete
Could you come see me in April and make me laugh in person? Thanks.
You look super cute and sassy in your picture!ReplyDelete
Woohoo! I was so happy when I had this accomplished!ReplyDelete
Congrats! And seriously why do you look so warm? I'm jealous!ReplyDelete
Oh my goodness, hysterical!!!ReplyDelete
I um, think I had mine done within 48 hours of getting back from our honeymoon....hahaha!
LOL so funny!! Excited to get to meet you in Atlanta!ReplyDelete
hahaha! you look so cute and you guys crack me up. yay for Mrs. Luke Tree=)!ReplyDelete
Congrats, Mrs. Tree ;)ReplyDelete
Oh how funny!! So glad you are officially Mrs. Tree now :)ReplyDelete
haha I've been married almost 4 yrs and still haven't got my name changed. whoops.ReplyDelete
Good job! Our wait was horrible and the security guard stared at my husband the whole time and then yelled at him for having a pocket knife! Ha! It was awful.ReplyDelete
30 minutes? What?! When I went to change my name, I was there so long I had to call my husband to ask him to bring me food! For real.ReplyDelete
Yay for getting your name changed!! And girl you are so lucky for only waiting the short amount of time (ahem.. no thanks to Luke - lol!)ReplyDelete
It took me 6 months, getting my wallet stolen and 3 hours at Social Security to get mine changed. So maybe waiting longer is worth it?
p.s. Love your bracelet!! So cute!
Please revise this post and add that you had one married friend who tried to convince you it was NO BIG DEAL to go get this done! LOL I'm proud of you for conquering your fears!ReplyDelete